An Engagement Ring is Forever—Are You Ready?
Buying an engagement or ceremonial ring is one of the most exciting (and emotional) purchases you’ll ever make. But before you get caught up in carats and settings, there are a few key things to consider.
Most people focus on finding the perfect ring—but the bigger question is, are you both ready for what it represents? A ring is a symbol of commitment, but a successful marriage or union depends on much more than just the jewelry.
This guide walks you through the essential steps to take before you say yes to the ring.
1. Have the Conversations That Matter
An engagement or ceremonial ring is a meaningful symbol, but it doesn’t guarantee a strong foundation for a lifelong commitment (just like we guarantee our rings, but not the relationship!).
Before proposing or exchanging rings, make sure you and your partner are aligned on:
💍 Long-Term Goals – Where do you both see yourselves in 5, 10, or 20 years? Do your visions align?
💰 Finances – Money is one of the biggest sources of relationship stress. Have you discussed saving, spending, and managing finances together?
🏡 Family & Lifestyle Expectations – Do you both want kids? What are your career goals? Even if you think you’re on the same page, it’s worth having an open and honest conversation.
2. Get a Sense of Their Style (and Whether They Want Input!)
Some people love surprises, while others want a say in their ring design—and that’s okay!
Not sure what they like? Try these subtle (or not-so-subtle) methods:
🔍 Check Their Pinterest Boards – Many people save inspiration for their dream ring without realizing it.
💎 Look at Their Current Jewelry – Do they wear minimalist styles or bold statement pieces? Vintage or modern?
👯 Ask a Trusted Friend or Family Member – They might already have insights into their preferences.
🛍 Consider Ring Shopping Together – Many couples now do this to ensure the ring is exactly what they want.
3. Set a Budget That Feels Right for You
Forget the outdated “three months’ salary” rule—buy what makes sense for your financial situation.
💰 Custom rings can be tailored to different budgets, but here’s what affects the cost:
✔️ Metal choice – Platinum costs more than gold due to its density and durability.
✔️ Gemstone selection – A well-cut diamond or unique alternative stone can impact the price.
✔️ Quality over price – A well-made ring is an investment that lasts a lifetime.
💡 Bonus Tip: Consider financing options, insurance, and long-term value when setting your budget.
4. Know the Basics of Diamond & Gemstone Selection
If you’re choosing a diamond, knowing the 4 Cs (Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat) helps you get the most for your money.
💎 Considering an alternative gemstone? Sapphires, rubies, or moissanite make stunning, unique engagement and ceremonial rings.
🌍 Think ethically – Recycled gold, lab-grown diamonds, and responsibly mined gemstones are great choices for sustainability.
5. Understand Custom vs. Ready-to-Wear Rings
✨ Custom Design
✔️ A one-of-a-kind ring created from scratch.
✔️ Takes time—plan for at least a few weeks or months.
✔️ Allows for heirloom stones, unique details, and personal touches.
💍 Ready-to-Wear
✔️ A beautiful option that’s already made and can be resized.
✔️ Great for last-minute proposals or those who want a quicker turnaround.
✔️ Hybrid approach: Choosing a ready-made setting but selecting the perfect stone separately.
Custom and ceremonial rings allow for more personalization, ensuring the piece truly reflects the couple’s unique love story.
6. Get the Right Size (Without Giving It Away!)
Nothing ruins the moment like a ring that doesn’t fit! Here are sneaky ways to find their ring size:
📏 Borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger and measure it.
🛍 Enlist a friend to take them jewelry shopping "for fun."
🔺 If unsure, size up – It’s easier to resize down than up.
7. Choose a Jeweler You Trust
Not all jewelers are created equal. When choosing where to buy, look for:
✔️ Transparency – Clear pricing, ethical sourcing, and no hidden fees.
✔️ Customization Options – If you want something unique, ensure the jeweler can accommodate your vision.
✔️ A Strong Guarantee – (We guarantee the ring, but the rest is up to you!)
At Stradley & Daughter, we ensure quality craftsmanship, ethical sourcing, and a personalized experience in every engagement and ceremonial ring we create.
8. Plan the Proposal - But Don’t Overthink It!
The ring is just one part of the moment—make it meaningful.
💖 Grand Gestures vs. Intimate Moments – Choose a proposal or ceremony style that feels authentic to your relationship.
📸 Capture the Moment – Whether it’s a professional photographer, a video, or just being fully present in the moment, make sure it’s something you’ll cherish forever.
Ready to Find the Perfect Ring? Let’s Make It Happen.
An engagement or ceremonial ring isn’t just about diamonds—it’s about love, commitment, and a future together. Whether you’re customizing from scratch or choosing a timeless design, we’re here to help.
💍 Book a consultation today and let’s create the perfect ring for your proposal or ceremony!
